I realized that the only way I am going to get better is by kicking this guy, and others like him, to the curb and I did! For as intolerant as I am, I have gotten too passive and nice for my own good. In fact, I have done a great disservice to myself by taking verbal abuse from people who have no right or reason to treat me that way.

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! My computer friend is gone gone gone. I kicked him my life and it’s like having a huge weight lifted. I don’t have to worry about this guy messaging me and freaking out any more!!!

Let this serve as a reminder to any of you who allow themselves to be verbally or physically abused–YOU DESERVE BETTER and ONLY YOU can take the necessary steps to get it. Just do it!

Hubby was so nice to bring home a cold from work and for me, it turned into walking pneumonia! First of all, how do you get pneumonia IN SUMMER and second off, why do I get these old people diseases?!

It’s all just too depressing any more.

At 11 a.m. I checked again and still the deposit wasn’t recorded! I know this bank and I know from experience they VERY OFTEN forget to check their night drop so I called them.

The excuse this time was a classic they haven’t used before.

The lady who normally “writes down” the night deposits is on vacation this week and the person who is taking it over hasn’t had time to “write them in” yet but she will do it right away for you.

TRANSLATION: We didn’t check the night drop yet!

CRIPES!

Good thing I wasn’t sitting somewhere at an ATM expecting to withdraw some of that money!

If they are not capable to driving and talking at the same time, they should just pull over!

There is no need to be lopped into or onto the passenger seat in order to talk on the phone. If you need to lean, put the phone on the other ear so that the window will stop you from falling over!

And as for the 90 degree angle thing–JUST STOP! My husband is a person who does this and I am constantly saying HUH HUH HUH when I talk to him on the phone! Now I know WHY! Once again, if you can’t talk and drive at the same time, you shouldn’t.

STOP!

My poor little guy has had so much done to him at this point I feel so bad. He’s had so many pokes whether it’s to give him things like fluids and meds or take things like blood from him I bet the poor little guy feels like a pin cushion.

At this point, we are at a stand still with him. The vet just doesn’t know what his problem is because he has so many different symptoms which could be any of 20 things. They think it’s possible he has an ulcer or irritable bowel syndrome (didn’t know cats got those). He might have eaten something that is lodged in his tummy but they really don’t think that is the issue. It’s just a real stumper. They suggested doing an endoscopy to see if he has an ulcer but I would have to take him elsewhere for that and then we’re talking a minimum of $500 to do it and there is just no way I can afford that.

All I can really do at this point is hope he gets better with his round of antibiotics he’s having and the other meds they are giving him.

I have decided that if he gets better this time and then goes into this same thing again, I will put him down rather than putting him through more pin-cushion treatment and that is a really difficult thing to even think of doing because I love him so much but I know I have to do what’s best for him too.

It is so gross to be talking to the receptionist at the clinic and she’s open mouth gum chewing while talking to you. You would think someone in such a profession would know better but apparently not!

I sat while waiting for my doctor’s appointment and watched her and it didn’t matter if she was talking to someone face-to-face or on the phone she was chomp chomp chomping with her mouth hanging wide open and also shoving her gum out through her teeth.

If anyone reading this does such a disgusting and vile thing SLAP YOURSELF NOW then learn to shut your fucking mouth. Moreover, if you are in a position where you are talking to the public whether face-to-face or on the phone, SPIT THE GUM OUT YOU RUDE FUCKER!

We do not want to SEE or HEAR you chomp chomp chomping!!!!

Learn some fucking manners!

Same goes for cashiers at stores, gas, stations, wherever it may be. If you’re encountering others while chewing gum SHUT IT!

Ok, ok, probably not the best thing to say to your mother-in-law at Christmas but when it’s MY mother-in-law…it’s totally acceptable.

As she was opening gifts from her boyfriend, mememememememe holds up a t-shirt which says IDAHO on it. So she holds it up says I DA HO……I couldn’t help it, it just fell out. I said, you said it, not me.

OOPS!!!

This *could* be why she hasn’t called since Christmas Eve huh? OH WELL. Truth is truth.

We have not heard a single word from the mother-in-law since Christmas Eve. I have not called her, I’ve just been waiting her out. Last night she called. She said oh you are alive I said yeah you are too. I said I checked the paper for your obituary but didn’t see it so I figured you were alive.

She was the same old me me me but either way, I WIN just because I waited for her to call.

Shocker too–she did ask how her son was doing. If she really cared, she would have been calling routinely but of course that’s not about her so why would she.

His mother did find her way to visit him ONCE in that time though in all fairness she was not feeling well and had been having a fever and I told her point blank–if you have a fever don’t come to the hospital.

Of course, I had to call her to update her on how he was doing. God forbid she would call to check on her own son! That would take away from her mememememe time.

After she visited, I quit calling her to update her and it took her 4 days to call on her own–such a caring person.

Since he has been home which has now been 8 days, she has called ONCE (yesterday) to ask how he is doing and then she didn’t really ask. It was the typical memememememememememememe my sister and her husband are taking advantage of memememememe, boyfriend boyfriend boyfriend, grandson grandson, memememememememememe, how’s my son doing, mememememememememe and me some more.

It NEVER ENDS! NEVER!

It’s amazing she didn’t kill her children when she had them because caring for them took away from her time for her SELFISH self.

One day, I swear, ONE DAY, I’ll tell her and it will NOT pretty.