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Ok, first a couple updates to explain my lack of posts lately and then we go into danger danger danger……………….
I haven’t posted lately because I haven’t felt like bitching (mark it on the calender, it doesn’t happen very often). This is not to say that I haven’t had things that I could or should bitch about because there have been, but I haven’t felt like doing it.
Another reason for my absence is that some ASSHOLE got me involved with playing Guild Wars under the guise that we would play it TOGETHER and that he would help me but he doesn’t manage to do either very much (that’s what makes him an ASSHOLE). Combine this with my husband–who HATES computers–was so interested in Guild Wars that he had to have his own computer to play it, well, let’s just say that’s all HE is interested in any more when he is at home is Guild Wars. That has gotten so bad in fact that he up until 6 in the morning playing the game. He has turned into a monster where the game is concerned. It’ amazing how someone who hates computers so much can get so involved.
An update on my uh oh……
My husband got the job he put in for without discussing it with me. UH OH…
And now for the danger danger danger part
A few months ago my husband was talking a lot about a woman at work. They worked together quite a bit at that time and would joke back and forth a lot. One day he told me that the woman had said it was a good thing she fell in love with her husband before they ever had sex because he was horrible and she made him read books to learn a few things so APPARENTLY their discussions were pretty involved.
Tonight when I picked him up from work, I saw this woman walking to her car and before he got in my husband asked her if she was ok and she just shook her head and kept walking. I asked him what happened and he said that the woman had gotten in trouble at work he doubted she’d come back. He was pretty quiet after that and then out of the blue he said she looked like she just needed a hug. DANGER DANGER DANGER. It is a bit disconcerting that he made this statement for a few reasons, the biggest being that he is ABSOLUTELY NOT the “hug” type–AT ALL. In fact, he is about as affectionate as a rattle snake so for him to be so concerned about this woman that he thought she needed a hug, well, read between the lines there. I suspected before when they were working together all the time that he was liking her a bit too much but I ignored it.
There was another girl at work he had a thing for when he first started there though he vehemently denied it, he talked about her incessantly. I had told him then that if he was interested in her, he should pursue it because she is younger and can have children which is something that he wants and I never did (and can’t have anyway). He just told me I was being stupid but I know better because one day when he got off work he was really down in the dumps and when I questioned how the day went and what all went on, one of the things he told me was that she was pregnant.
So here we are once again. I know that he is interested in the hug woman but I also know she’s married too. If he continues to talk a lot about her, I will tell him the same thing I told him before…….if he’s interested he should pursue it. I won’t hold him back.